So Baby Led Weaning is interesting. Toast and broccoli end up everywhere, but melon, green beans and cucumber aren’t quite so bad. There is still a lot that don’t end up eaten… well none of the green bean was eaten, just chewed and used to wave at people.?
We started weaning Baby H at 6 months. She had a couple of pur?es from 5.5 months, but they were very sporadic. I loved the idea of baby led weaning, but the possibility of choking scared me and I felt quite out of my depth as to what to give her and how (despite reading copious books and googling constantly).
Now 2 months on, I love it, and so does she. She still gets lots of pur?es, mostly down to the fact she loves them, but also the fact that so much BLW food just doesn’t go in her mouth. It gets dropped, flung, squished, spat out, and just disappears. I have no idea where it goes, it might actually be digested. Having said that, we do know some does really go in, just so so so much doesn’t. My post on things parents say when weaning encompasses all this!
I think with baby led weaning you need to remember the BLW coefficient … Here’s how I calculate it:
Yes so actually I think she did fairly well with this, though, I’m not ruling out that I won’t find some extra crumbs as the day goes on.
What do you think? Really, the coefficient should include age as I’m sure (hope?) H’s eating improves!
Lynne x
36 Comments
Caroline (Becoming a SAHM)
August 17, 2015 at 10:04 pmHaha love this! I was a bit the same with BLW to start with, though less worried about choking I just didn’t know what to give her but now I love it and so does LM… great equation though and a don’t know what they do with toast to make it look like that lol! Thanks for linking with #MaternityMondays
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newmummy
August 17, 2015 at 10:11 pmHahaha thank you! And thank you for hosting #maternitymondays X
Min
August 17, 2015 at 10:29 pmMy experiences with baby led weaning were exactly the same as this! In fact, Piglet didn’t really eat anything at all until he was about 8 months old. I also tried spoon feeding him but that was unacceptable to him. Weirdly now, at the age of one, he has decided that he can’t be bothered to feed himself and opens his mouth and waits for me to pop pieces of food in there, so I’m not sure that all that faff with the BLW had the desired effect in the end.
newmummy
August 18, 2015 at 5:48 pmOh no, I hope he decides to feed himself soon! Yes, BLW seems very hit and miss x
Silly Mummy
August 18, 2015 at 1:19 amHaha! I have used a bit of BLW mixed with not BLW! I find BLW stressful though – I spend enough time cleaning as it is! #babybrainmonday
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newmummy
August 18, 2015 at 5:50 pmI think a mixture works well, I’m sure she’d be starving if I only did BLW.I know what you mean about cleaning! I quite like that it’s summer so we can eat outside sometimes or on the picnic blanket ? x
Mummy R
August 18, 2015 at 10:16 pmLove this – hehe! we could not manage it with twins, just ugh!
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newmummy
August 18, 2015 at 10:51 pmOh wow, I can’t imagine! X
Mama, My Kid Doesn't Poop Rainbows
August 19, 2015 at 12:15 amHaha, this is fab. OMG the feeding nightmare continues for us. With added stress because I can no longer sing to my self ‘Before 1 food is for fun’.
I never get the quantity right. If I give him a little he eats it all and cries for more. A lot and it all goes on the floor or in the dog. Sigh.
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newmummy
August 22, 2015 at 8:25 pmIt really is a minefield! So so hard to get it right x
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Rebecca
August 19, 2015 at 3:56 pmThis is brilliant. I tried a cucumber stick yesterday. He pulled his ‘broccoli face’ and threw it across the room. Ahhh…. Thanks for making me feel less alone! x
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newmummy
August 22, 2015 at 8:21 pmHaha yes, I think BLW improves their throwing skills 🙂
Lisa (mummascribbles)
August 21, 2015 at 4:40 pmWe didn’t go down the BLW route – I couldn’t be bothered with all the faff and I too was scared about choking – he was bad enough with purée!! I did try a bit when I moved him onto solids and I agree, broccoli makes a lot of mess! Thanks so much for linking up with #TwinklyTuesday
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newmummy
August 22, 2015 at 8:18 pmThanks Lisa, yes I’m still quite scared of choking, but she’s remarkably good at coughing or spitting big bits out. We’ve had a few scares, but she copes really well gagging x
Alex
August 22, 2015 at 7:10 amI was awful at weaning Lamb. I did purees and just really struggled with giving him solid foods. He’s a fussy eater and has been since he was 10 months. I will definitely be doing BLW with my second baby xx #busydoinglife
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newmummy
August 22, 2015 at 8:16 pmIt is fun and feels nice seeing her work out what it is and hat she can eat it! It’s scary but I’ve definitely got more confident, so would recommend it x
Claire
August 22, 2015 at 7:12 amGreat post!!! Had a really good giggle at the toast crust pic… I have actually tried re constructing a steamed carrot stick in this was, got really excited that she had eaten ‘loads’ then found the remaining missing piece in the top of her nappy! Thankyou so much for linking this up with #busydoinglife. Have a great week x
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newmummy
August 22, 2015 at 8:15 pmOh wow I’m impressed you tried reconstructing carrot! X
Cheryl @ Reimer and Ruby
August 22, 2015 at 7:58 amI can’t quiet remember how I fed my kids at that age, they’re 5 &2 now… I know I did tried BLW on them too but on a slightly later age as I’m too scared in case they choke. Anyway, Great post and great tips here. #busydoinglife
newmummy
August 22, 2015 at 8:13 pmThank you Cheryl x
Morna
August 22, 2015 at 8:03 amI think utter laziness of parent also has a place in the co-efficient! I didn’t do any purees – not because I’m a purest (sorry accidental pun) but because I just couldn’t be bothered with the whole weaning thing! I still remember the looks of horror on the faces of the girls from my antenatal class when they all started getting out their pots of food and I looked a bit vague and said ‘oh I thought I’d just give her some of my sandwich!’
Great post- this period is so much fun (apart from the mess!) Enjoy 🙂
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newmummy
August 22, 2015 at 8:12 pmHahaha well yes, it’s taken a while for me to think that I have to take food out with me in the day… But yes it is fun 🙂
Mummuddlingthrough
August 23, 2015 at 7:58 pmWe have coincidentally synchronised thoughts this week! Love this it’s hilarious, as a scientist, I love your use of an equation lol xx #sundaystars
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newmummy
August 23, 2015 at 10:10 pmHaha I was thinking that earlier when I saw your post! Hmm. You’ve given me an idea x
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Heledd - Running in Lavender
August 27, 2015 at 10:10 amI tried baby led weaning with both my girls but they just didn’t get it at first – and to be honest I found that they ate so much more fruit and veg when I fed them. Also, I find the mess really difficult. All the best of luck to you! xx
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DaisLikeThese
November 9, 2015 at 10:46 amI love your before and after pic of the toast!
I didn’t ever try baby led with my two boys but I think I will with bubba number three. Only a few months to go to psych myself up! Wish me luck!
newmummy
November 9, 2015 at 4:16 pmGood luck! It is fun 🙂
Pauline
November 9, 2015 at 8:19 pmI’m the same with my son, most of it gets squashed into his fists and on the floor, the clean up job afterwards is crazy and that’s just the highchair lol, I still give him purees too because of your formula, most gets wasted after you’ve spent 20 minutes prepping it and sometimes I just don’t want food all over the place AGAIN #TheBabyFormula
Pauline x
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newmumkaboom
November 9, 2015 at 9:14 pmHa, ha – love the pics! I was pretty lucky with my boy we did a bit of both BLW and mashed up food. He is going through the no green food apart from peas.. so that’s fun!!! Thanks for hosting 🙂
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Chloe Brewer
November 10, 2015 at 9:40 pmIt seems like so long ago that I went through this with my son! He’s only 5 now, so it wasn’t that long! But baby led weaning wasn’t something I had heard of back then, sounds like something to look into next time – if there ever is one! x
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